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Stay tuned

July 10, 2009 · Leave a Comment

UPDATE: Useful article: February 4, 2008, No Quarter: Krugman: If Obama Is President, There’s No Chance for Universal Health Care

PUMAs were right that Obama is corrupt, misogynist, homophobic, inexperienced, unqualified, conservative and totalitarian. He’s up to 190 alarming, unprogressive acts in 191 days.

I was also right people should talk about sexism in communities of color. People are starting to talk about it even though 90% of rape occurred between people of the same race and economic class for the last 24 years or as long as I complained people do not talk about sexism I communities of color.

I am right about two more things. One is REALLY, REALLY big and the other is REALLY big. The truth is starting to come out about both. The truth always comes out, doesn’t it? Misogyny is why people are ignorant about both and other peoples’ misogyny and ignorance are not my fault.

Stay tuned.

Categories: feminism · intersectionality · politics · sexism

The truth about the NOW election

June 25, 2009 · 2 Comments

Reclusive Leftist: But if this were really a cocktail party I bet we wouldn’t be talking about abortion

Reclusive Leftist: The Big Tent

Africa Matata: Thanks to Sarah Palin African Women Vying For Presidency

Times Online: White House ‘dirty tricks’ torpedos Palin. So Obama was behind Troopergate. Didn’t the Clintons have a Troopergate? More proof Obama and Failbots are Republicans. They should at least be original. Check this out:

Troopergate (Bill Clinton)

Troopergate is the popular name of allegations of a scandal by two Arkansas State Troopers that they arranged sexual liaisons for then Governor Bill Clinton. The allegations by state troopers Larry Patterson and Roger Perry were first presented by David Brock in The American Spectator in 1993.

David Brock also wrote The Real Anita Hill and The Seduction of Hillary Rodham. Obama’s Troopergate took down Palin, Brock’s Troopergate took down the Clintons and Brock wrote idiotic books that slandered Anita Hill and Hillary Clinton. Do you see the pattern here? Liberal and conservative men are so terrified of women in politics they work ahead of time to take them down. This is why Big Tent feminism (See above) is critical. Brock later wrote Blindness of the Right and started Media Matters but he didn’t learn anything because he wrote Free Ride: John McCain and the Media in March 2008. When will he write Free Ride: Barack Obama and the Media? I also don’t recall the Media Matters founder saying anything about the 2008-2009 sexism.

The story mentioned a woman named Paula, a reference to Paula Jones who later sued Clinton in Jones v. Clinton. Brock has since apologized to Clinton, saying the expose based on the troopers was politically motivated “bad journalism” and said “The Troopers had slimy motives.” Later Jones said Brock’s account of her encounter with Clinton was totally wrong.

Paula Jones was the beginning of the end for the Clintons even though the lies started at the beginning of his presidency in 1993.

Paula Jones:

The impeachment trial of President Clinton on perjury and obstruction of justice charges was based on statements he made during the deposition for the Paula Jones lawsuit. The specific statements were about the nature of his relationship with White House intern Monica Lewinsky, with whom he denied having a sexual relationship.

The Hill: McCain: Palin not a quitter

“I have never seen the sustained, personal, family attacks that were made on Sarah Palin and her family in my life…and I’m sure that had some impact.”

Daily Kos: Sexism on Daily Kos. 1800 comments.

The New Agenda: A Male Feminist’s Treatise on Sexism. Beautifully written. There are millions heartbroken like you. You are not alone.

Carl Cannon: Reporter: ‘We Took Sides Straight and Simple’ Against Palin. They took sides straight and simple against Clinton too. Failbots use AUMF as an excuse but no one ever held it against Biden, Kerry, Dodd and Reid who also voted for it. In fact, Kerry used AUMF to gain votes in 2004.

Bob Somerby: Palin maneuvered Richard Cohen into using today’s sexist language

No Quarter: Congratulations to the Media, the Political Class, and the Obots! You hounded another female politician out

Stanley Fish: In Defense of Palin and Sanford

Real Clear Politics: Like Hillary, Sarah Faces Media Sexism

Peter Daou: Palin-Bashing and Hillary-Bashing: The Same Thing?

Third Estate Sunday Review: Taking sexism seriously

Violet Socks: Feminists and the mystery of Sarah Palin. 486 comments!

AfroCity: Read The Lipstick You Dipsticks: Palin 2012

The Confluence: Black, white and Sarah

Betty Jean hosts Marcia Pappas (NY-NOW), Terry O’Neill, Bonnie Grabenhofer and Erin Matson of the new NOW slate on the ERA, grassroots organizing, women in politics, equal pay, gay marriage, cultural sexism, disability, single-payer health care, young feminists and Sandy Oestreich on the ERA

Alegre: A conversation with NOW’s new president, Terry O’Neill

NPR: New Leader Brings New Vision to NOW

The New Agenda: After a Coup d’Etat at NOW, the Future of “Feminism”

Reclusive Leftist: The truth about the NOW election

#7: Talk about not wanting to relinquish power: the NOW establishment (Kim Gandy and Ellie Smeal) was very intent on blocking any opposition to Latifa Lyles. Some of their tactics at the conference included:

* Refusing to seat delegations on made-up technicalities
* Refusing to credential members in good standing who supported O’Neill
* Confiscating materials from the opposition
* Refusing to recognize questioners
* Cutting the mike while members of the opposition were speaking
* Accusing the opposition of being “enemies” and “infiltrators”

#8: The NOW establishment (Kim Gandy and Ellie Smeal) flew in a bunch of non-voting attendees, attired in campaign colors, to run around shouting and cheerleading in an apparent attempt to give the impression of overwhelming advantage. Of the 575 attendees at the conference, only 406 were eligible to vote.

Just like Obama’s bullying, intimidation, thuggery and cheating in the caucuses. Dr. Lynette Long and Dr. Violet Socks wrote that 98-page report on caucus fraud last August. We bitter knitters know what’s going on. While you’re at it, watch the heartbreaking Texas caucus fraud videos. Alegre says there’s a DC meeting today to change the corrupt caucus system but it’s run by the same criminals who ran the caucuses, OFA. More on the usual suspects, a liveblog of the meeting, mainstream commentary and a list of future meetings. The focus of the meetings is on the timing of primaries, getting rid of superdelegates and caucuses but they should get rid of the early contests, caucuses and pledged delegates many of which are based on caucuses and regional representation. They should just go by popular vote and superdelegates. I’m for keeping the superdelegates as long as they do their job and vote according to their states’ popular vote and overrule unreasonable candidates. In other words, states should be winner-take-all like the Republican system, the winner should be determined by electoral college and superdelegates can finally overrule an unreasonable candidate.

Reclusive Leftist: NOW conference infiltrated by NOW members

Lynette and Paulie Abeles are lifelong Democratic, pro-choice, feminist activists and NOW members like me. Paulie is an outstanding Democratic activist who worked on Democratic campaigns for decades. She started RealDemocrats. The Third Wave is basically young and ignorant.

Lynette:

We have to take back the women’s movement since it’s obvious these third wavers can’t get the job done. When it comes to sexism, sexual harrasment, and violence against women,my attitude is TAKE NO PRISONERS. Only when they are afraid of us, will they respect us.

I say wait until July 20th to open your checkbooks so we make sure the new team gets the money.

Reminds me of her December call to women, Guerilla fighters needed for women’s rights

I am starting a new group of women warriors, gorilla girls, female fighters…I want twenty-five women who are willing to fight beside me for women’s rights. Women who are willing to get arrested for women’s rights. Women who are not only willing to talk the talk but walk the walk. The group will make precision strikes at selected targets.

Lynette:

I know the young feminists think they are ready to take leadership,but I think their arrogance is born of ignorance. They don’t notice the insidious and pervasive sexism that surrounds them. They don’t notice that their favorite news channel, MSNBC is dominated by male broadcasters the likes of Chris Mathews and Keith Olbermann. Or that their favorite political website, Huffington Post, today has posts from eighteen bloggers, of which only two are women. Or that some of the hottest television shows, Sex in the City or New Jersey Housewives, trivialize women.

I don’t get it. Third-wavers don’t seem to care that there is only one female Supreme Court Justice, only sixteen women in the United States Senate, and there has never been a female president or vice president. Well, here’s a newsflash. Government can’t legislate for women without women. Men will not give you a seat at the table unless you take it. I want gender parity, 50-50, nothing less. I’m willing to fight for it and guess what, this old white woman has a lot of fight left in her.

Violet:

Go, Lynette! Damn straight. You’re a great feminist and a great role model.

I think a lot of the ageism in the Third Wave is just symptomatic of how backlashy it really is. I’ve been heard to say that the Third Wave isn’t feminism so much as the patriarchal version of feminism. And disdain for older women is part and parcel of that.

Stray Yellar Dog: N.O.W. Has Been Infiltrated…. by… Grown-Ups.

Certain Third Wavers with a poor grasp of herstory, however, believe we are … get this…. ****infiltrators***** Gasp!

Woohoo! After eighteen months of “Lord of the Flies” the grown ups have returned! Third Wavers are about to be schooled BY THE BEST in the business.

They should thank their lucky stars for that!

Free Us Now: Will you join me NOW. Betty Jean was there too and her account corroborates with other PUMAs’:

Upon arriving, I saw the opposing team dressed in orange. It was clear we were outnumbered 2 to 1—but as it turns out, not by voters, just by agitators. Of the nearly 600 who attended, just over 400 voted. Sound familiar?

As for the opposing argument – it was the same old story. Supporters of the O’Neill slate were cast as bitter, old Hillary-turned- Palin-supporters come to infiltrate this organization and take away women’s abortion rights! We are now known all over the blogs as “Pro-life Palinists” or “Pro-life Feminists”.

But we know who we really are, We are “Free- Choice Feminists” according to Lynette Long and we are those who understand

“…different feminists may come to different conclusions when assessing the best way to advance feminist goals. Especially in a year when the two most prominent women in American politics were reduced, respectively, to a nutcracker and an inflatable doll.” –Violet Socks

We presented information, raised tough questions, marched around, stood our ground and said our piece. It was exhilarating to find so many other women who think, feel and act as we do. We are not alone!

These three days were indeed reminiscent of the Obama campaign- Young people dressed in orange from head to toe chanted, ran in packs, recited talking points, would not listen to reason, and shouted us down. Their slate promised change, but had presided over huge losses in membership and revenues, and were backed by the crowd that has made NOW seem irrelevant to so many women, a NOW that did not come out strongly for Hillary each time she was maligned by the media and then failed again to speak up for Palin. A NOW that ignored the way Obama and his allies in the DNC treated Hillary Clinton last year. A now that watched MS magazine rub salt in our wounds — Obama on the cover reading “This is what a feminist looks like”. A NOW clearly cowrowing to the Democratic Party and catering solely to far left democrat members who tow the party line.

Their platform was right out of an Obama speech, all talk of hope and change. Complete with a 33 year old woman of color of limited experience running for President and accusing the other team of racism and ageism for running an “old” white, highly experienced, highly competent attorney for President. Note the so-called “racist” slate contains a 29 year old attorney of color for VP. Obfuscation -sound Familiar?

I was tempted to give it all up and just check out. They had the power – the numbers – the clout- the leadership and they were blasting us from the microphone. They called us racists, Palinists, republicans, Puma’s, infiltrators, traitors, rude, crude and men haters but in the end, we had learned a lot from this last election. When it came time to vote, the orange neckerchiefs were shed, and the votes were cast for a new beginning. A new day is truly dawning. A real shift has has already occurred and with your help, we can build an unstoppable movement.

The Confluence: Tuesday: If votes are falsified but no one sees it, they still count

The truly liberal, feminist women of NOW have exerted their authority to take the organization back. Don’t blame it on the Palin supporters. They had nothing to do with it. You brought this on yourselves.

Someone should remove the sharp objects from the rooms you’re in before you hurt yourselves.

PUMAPac: Turning Worms Tuesday

MILLIONS of experienced, politically active Democratic FEMINISTS were toweringly OUTRAGED by the sexism and misogyny that went down last year in the Democratic primaries — perpetrated by DEMOCRATS, which only added fuel to our fire, and then dragged like a disgusting stink bomb into the general election to be used with even greater ferocity against Governor Cunt of Alaska.

We’re still here. We’re still voting members of NOW. We still know how to tell the difference between bold, historic leadership and a market tested, lavishly funded Product Launch. We haven’t forgotten Amanda. And we never will. Not because it’s comforting to nurse grudges, but because what happened last year was SO bad it will continue to motivate us for YEARS to make sure it never happens again, and that the organization which purports to represent and speak for us actually, you know, REPRESENTS US. So long as the national leadership of NOW was intent on compromising its CORE mission in order to cozy up to a candidate and administration which had and has zero intention of advancing the goals or enhancing the power of women, that leadership’s days were numbered.

Because the women who used to lead NOW may be political failures as feminists, but the members of NOW are certainly not.

PUMAPac: We Wuz Robbed

It’s hard to blame Third Wave feminists for voting for obama. They are pretty dumb.

Tragically, obama is politically outclassed in this enormous effort and, even IF his intentions were pure (which I am absolutely convinced they are not, given his hitherto utter lack of principled convictions on ANY issue), his inexperience and D.C. rookie status would predict a whiff performance. Add to that, the entrenched and bought-off Senators who collectively hold the keys to reform, and it’s clear to me that real health care reform is in fatal jeaopardy.

This really is a tragedy. Hillary Clinton most certainly would have done better. She’s been around the beltway block a thousand times and the Villagers just can’t touch her. True, Clinton dropped out and the Insider Politicians got their Obama Dream Wish Pony, but that was only accomplished by distasteful campaign operatives, and their attacks only started to work when obama pulled out the Race Card AND started hitting Clitnon with sexism and misogyny. And even THEN the DONC needed to use cheating and backroom dealing to win not technically win. Oh, and a fawning press helped too. Just a bit.

At a time in our political, economic, and social history when America really NEEDED an untouchably strong and incorruptibly confident leader; when we HAD one within our grasp, we got robbed and handed a fraudulent lightweight. How bad is he going to screw up health care reform? Will he ruin it so completely it will take another GENERATION before a true leader gets another crack at it?

Jackass.

The Confluence: Wednesday: Don’t step out of line

His words were a teensy bit stronger and I can understand why he doesn’t want the US to get involved, since that whole 1979 hostage crisis went over so well for Jimmy Carter. But if you look carefully at his words, injustice and human rights apply only to protest and dissent. He doesn’t say anything about the election being rigged and voters disenfranchised as being egregious and unsupportable.

Well, why would he? He doesn’t believe in self-determination any more than Ayatollah Khamenei. Sorry to tell you this, dear Iranian readers, but it’s true. You may have missed our infamous 2008 Democratic presidential primary but it was no less a stolen election than yours. The difference is we weren’t allowed to protest the way Iranians did last week. No massive protest would have been possible in Denver. I should know because I was there. The city was on lockdown. There were police in riot gear everywhere. Step over the line even once and they’d simply force you to the ground, cuff you and haul you off to some gitmo-esque, wire holding pen an hour away from Denver until they got around to letting you make a phone call.

The Confluence: Help Iranian PUMAs go viral! Spread the word

The New Agenda: The New Agenda Congratulates Terry O’Neill, incoming President of the National Organization for Women

Widdershins: Sarah Palin Supporters did NOT swing the NOW election….

The Confluence: Hell’s Grannies takeover NOW

Shannon Drury: Don’t mess with my little sister.

Shannon Drury: Now in the news…..NOW!

Categories: feminism

Crackdown in Tehran

June 24, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Threats Watch:

Iran has executed its Tiananmen Square. Baharestan Square has become synonymous with barbarity, cruelty, massacre and inhumanity.

An Iranian blogger (whose URL I will not publish) live blogging from Baharestan Square in central Tehran today captures but brief glimpses of the unimaginable horror that took place today. Bus loads of protesters were stopped and unloaded from their buses by “black-clad police” and literally herded. When the massing was sufficient, as the barely controllably distraught Tehran caller to CNN described first hand, hundreds of the regime’s Basij thugs poured out of an adjoining mosque and commenced a massacre with axes, clubs, guns and gas.

From the live blogger’s eyewitness account:

More than 10.000 Bassij Milittias get position in Central Tehran, including Baharestan Sq.
Army Helycopters flying over Baharestan and Vali Asr Sq.
The streets, squares and around BAHARESTAN (Approx. South-eastern of Tehran) is swarming with military forces, civilian forces, the security motorists
The croud have moved to the south of baharestan, the situation is bad, the shooting has started
In Baharestan Sq. in the Police shooting, A girl is shot and the police is not allowing to let them help
In Baharestan we saw militia with axe choping people like meat – blood everywhere – like butcher

This is the Iranian regime, wading into its own unarmed people and axing them to death, bludgeoning women (seen as the greatest threat to the regime) and throwing them to their deaths from pedestrian bridges. The same Iranian regime whose embassy officials are invited to American embassies around the world to celebrate on July 4th, of all things, a successful revolution.

This frantic phone call from a Tehran woman will break your heart as you consider our standard response has been “that there are sets of international norms and principles about violence” and that “the international community is watching.” Part of yesterday’s response by President Obama in a press conference included “that there is a peaceful path that will lead to stability and legitimacy (of the Iranian regime) and prosperity for the Iranian people. We hope they take it.” The Iranian theocratic regime clearly is not interested.

Washington Post: Women May Pose the Deepest Threat to Iran’s Regime. We must ask ourselves why this is this happening to prevent it from happening again. The answer is in Applebaum’s article.

Iranian PUMAs:

Who was really cheated in Iran’s vote? Women. The West shouldn’t cozy up to a regime that rigs elections against feminist candidates.

Who was really cheated in Iran’s vote? Women. The West shouldn’t cozy up to a regime that rigs elections against feminist candidates.

What is striking about the Iranians protesting fraud in the June 10 “election” is the number of women on the front lines. Among all those cheated at the polls, they may feel the most denied.

For the first time in one of the Islamic Republic’s controlled presidential campaigns, the women’s movement was able to raise its demands clearly and independently – even though the unelected, 12-member, all-male Guardian Council did not allow any female candidates to run.

The movement’s courage to confront the patriarchal theocracy (in which “morality police” still roam the streets looking for women with make-up) may have been a big reason why the regime rigged the vote count – and why supreme leader Ayatollah Ali Khamenei was forced to make a show of ordering a probe of the fraud.

During the campaign, Iran’s feminists found a voice in the popular opposition candidate, Mir Hossein Mousavi, a former prime minister. He promised to disband the morality police, reform the many laws that treat women unequally, and appoint women to high posts. He campaigned with his wife, Zahra Rahnavard, a prominent academic and author of 15 books. The two appear to be a loving couple, displaying a modern equality to Iranian women. But he “lost” the vote – even in his hometown, which was yet another sign that the fix was in.

USAToday: Iranian women take key role in protests

Negar Mortazavi, who lives in Washington, D.C., stays in touch with Iranian friends who have been protesting in Tehran. On Saturday, a male student described on the phone violent clashes between protesters, police and plainclothes militia.

One scene stood out, and “he couldn’t believe his eyes,” said Mortazavi, 27, who came to the USA from Iran in 2002 and is helping to coordinate protests in the United States. “He decided it was time to start running when the police were coming. He turned back and saw some women still standing,” she says. “These women are not afraid.”

Iranian women have been on the front lines of anti-government protests challenging the official results of the June 12 election, in which President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad was declared the victor.

US News: Iranian Women’s Key Role in the Iran Election Protests

Ms. Mariam Memarsadeghi: Iranian women, and their long stifled demands for legal equality, greater individual rights and democratic development for the country, have been at the core of the “green movement” behind the candidacy of Mir Hossein Mousavi. A Campaign for One Million Signatures was launched by leading Iranian feminists under the presidency of Mahmoud Ahmadinejad. Though the leaders behind this grassroots civic campaign were subject to intense surveillance, intimidation, imprisonment, exorbitant bail fines and restrictions on their right to travel abroad, they managed to make their struggle a broad based one that penetrated the intensely male dominated political sphere by calling on presidential candidates to engage with them and address their demands for reform of the constitution and laws affecting women’s rights. They also demanded that Iran sign on to the UN Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women as a means to force the Islamist regime to bring its laws and practices affecting women in line with international norms. Women themselves have never been permitted by the theocracy to run for president as their judgment is deemed inferior.

It is important to note that before the 1979 Revolution, Iranian women were making great strides toward equal opportunity in education and the world of work. Women could be seen in positions of leadership in various fields of work and at the highest levels of government. Islamist ideology and the totalitarian state changed that reality virtually overnight as Ayatollah Khomeini and his followers ushered in a constitution and new laws which reversed the gains women had made and virtually expelled them from the work force. Mandatory veiling and a fiercely repressive police state, not to mention the eight year war with Iraq and Iran’s international isolation, caused deep setbacks for women. Under Mohammad Khatami’s presidency, women managed to create some space for greater civic organizing and personal liberties, though at the legal level, little progress was tolerated by the ruling clerical establishment.

The current crisis in Iran profoundly affects women as the differences between Ahmadinejad and Mousavi are stark when it comes to women’s rights and women’s role in society. Mousavi’s outspoken wife, Zahra Rahnavard, has made the status of women a core theme of her president’s campaign, while Ahmadinejad, with his barely visible spouse and radical Islamist outlook, has ruled with a certain contempt for women’s leadership in the public sphere. If Ahmadinejad’s coup succeeds, Iranian women will suffer tremendously.

Slate: Woman Power: Regimes that repress the civil and human rights of half their population are inherently unstable.

I don’t know whether the girl in the photographs is destined to become this revolution’s symbolic martyr, as some are already predicting. I do know, however, that there is a connection between the violence in Iran over the last week and the women’s rights movement that has slowly gained strength over the last several years in Iran.

In the United States, the most Americo-centric commentators have somberly attributed the strength of recent demonstrations to the election of Barack Obama. Others want to give credit to the democracy rhetoric of the Bush administration. Still others want to call this a “Twitter revolution” or a “Facebook revolution,” as if zippy new technology alone had inspired the protests. But the truth is that the high turnout was the result of many years of organizational work carried out by small groups of civil rights activists and, above all, women’s groups, working largely unnoticed and without much outside help.

Not Obama, not Bush, and not Twitter, in other words, but years of work and effort lie behind the public display of defiance—and in particular the numbers of women on the streets. And their presence matters. For at the heart of the ideology of the Islamic republic is its claim to divine inspiration: The leadership is legitimate, and in particular its harsh repression of women is legitimate, because God has decreed that it is so. The outright rejection of this creed by tens of thousands of women, not just over the last weekend but over the last decade, has to weaken the Islamic republic’s claim to invincibility in Iran and across the Middle East. The regime’s political elite knows this well. It is no accident that the two main challengers to President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad in the Iranian election campaign promised to repeal some of the laws that discriminate against women—and no accident that the leading challenger, Mir Hossein Mousavi, used his wife, political scientist and former university chancellor Zahra Rahnavard, in his campaign appearances and posters.

The Iranian clerics know that women pose a profound threat to their authority: As activist Ladan Boroumand has written, the regime would not bother to use brutal forms of repression against dissidents unless it feared them deeply. Nobody would have murdered a young woman in blue jeans—a peaceful, unarmed demonstrator—unless her mere presence on the street presented a dire threat.

New York Times: Iran’s Second Sex . Beautiful article about Iranian women.

Christiane Amanpour (who’s Iranian) on the Iranian crisis and the dominant role of women

CNN: Women in Iran march against discrimination

CNN: Iranian women stand up in defiance, flout rules

CNN: Women in Iran march against discrimination

Women, regarded as second-class citizens under Iranian law, have been noticeably front and center of the massive demonstrations that have unfolded since the presidential election a week ago. Iranians are protesting what they consider a fraudulent vote count favoring hardline incumbent Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, but for many women like Parisa, the demonstrations are just as much about taking Iran one step closer to democracy.

“Women have become primary agents of change in Iran,” said Nayereh Tohidi, chairwoman of the Gender and Women’s Studies Department at California State University, Northridge.

The remarkable images show women with uncovered heads who are unafraid to speak their minds and crowds that are not segregated — both the opposite of the norm in Iran, Tohidi said.

She said a long-brewing women’s movement may finally be manifesting itself on the streets and empowering women like Parisa.

“This regime is against all humanity, more specifically against all women,” said Parisa, whom CNN is not fully identifying for security reasons.

“I see lots of girls and women in these demonstrations,” she said. “They are all angry, ready to explode, scream out and let the world hear their voice. I want the world to know that as a woman in this country, I have no freedom.”

Though 63 percent of all Iranian college students are women, the law of the land does not see men and women as equal. In cases of divorce, child custody, inheritance and crime, women do not have the same legal rights as men.

In the past four years, Ahmadinejad has made it easier for men to practice polygamy and harder for women to access public sector jobs, according to CNN’s Chief International Correspondent Christiane Amanpour.

Amanpour, who has reported extensively from Iran, describes Iranian women as “very strong.” In 1997, it was women who came out along with young people to put reformist candidate Mohammed Khatami into the presidency, Amanpour said.

Increasingly, women’s voices are gaining power as their numbers rise and their demands grow louder.

Even the granddaughter of Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini, the architect of the Islamic republic, voiced frustration at the way women are treated.

“Women are just living things,” Zahra Eshraghi told Amanpour. “A woman is there to fill her husband’s stomach and raise children.”

For the first time, women were allowed to register for the presidential race, though none, including Eshraghi, were deemed fit to run by the religious body that vets candidates. But women’s issues surfaced in the campaign.

That was partly the result of a women’s movement comprised of educated, urban, middle-class women that has grown in recent years with the addition of more conservative and poorer women, said Tohidi, a longtime observer of women’s rights in Iran. Ironically, traditional women first gained voice under the clerics.

“Khomeini needed their votes, so he encouraged them to be publicly active,” Tohidi said.

The middle-class women who enjoyed certain freedoms in prerevolutionary days refused to turn back, while a new generation of conservatives were awakened to feminism.

In 2003, lawyer and women’s rights activist Shirin Ebadi won the Nobel Peace Prize, providing a “big boost” for Iranian women, Tohidi said.

At the same time, private organizations and charities that deal with women’s issues blossomed under the presidency of reformist Mohammed Khatami, growing by as much as 700 percent, Tohidi said.

Marriage age increased as more women opted to marry for love, instead of entering arranged marriages. The One Million Signatures Campaign officially launched in 2006 sprouted new discourse and attention with a petition that asks the parliament to reform gender discriminatory laws.

In this year’s presidential campaign, Iranian women pressured candidates to agree to ratify the U.N. Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women. The 1979 treaty has been ratified by 186 nations, including several Islamic states.

Two opposition candidates, Mir Hossein Moussavi and Mehdi Karrubi, vowed to look into parts of the Iranian constitution that defer women’s rights to what is regarded as an outdated version of sharia, or Islamic, law. Moussavi had even promised to appoint women as cabinet ministers for the first time.

Some women in Iran looked to Moussavi to carry their banner, perhaps because they were inspired by his wife, Zahra Rahnavard, a much-admired academic who told CNN’s Amanpour that Iran’s 34 million women want civil laws and family laws revised.

Author and journalist Azadeh Moaveni, who spent several years working in Iran, said Ahmadinejad’s fundamentalism has pushed Iranian women to the edge.

“He has been a catastrophe for women,” said Moaveni, who wrote “Lipstick Jihad” and co-authored “Iran Awakening” with Nobel laureate Ebadi.

The weight of discrimination against women is felt most profoundly through Iran’s legal system, but Moaveni said Ahmadinejad added to the hardship by clamping down on women’s lifestyles. He mandated the way women dress and even censored Web sites that dealt with women’s health, Moaveni said. A woman would be hard-pressed to conduct a Google search for something as simple as breast cancer.

Moaveni was almost arrested because her coat sleeves were too short and exposed too much skin. In that setting, she said, it’s striking to see women protesting, especially without their hijabs, or head coverings.

“While it’s not at the top of women’s grievances, the hijab is symbolic. Taking it off is like waving a red flag,” Moaveni said. “Women are saying they are a force to be reckoned with.”

Azar Nafisi, a professor at Johns Hopkins University’s School of Advanced International Studies and author of “Reading Lolita in Tehran,” said she has been watching the footage from Iran with “inordinate pride.”

She marched on the streets during the 1979 revolution because she believed in greater freedoms for her people, only to see her dreams shattered as hardline clerics took hold of Iran. “Reading Lolita” is largely a memoir of her harrowing days in Iran until 1997, when she immigrated to the United States.

“The way I walked down the street became a political statement,” Nafisi said.

She recalled her own mother being a devout Muslim who chose not to wear a veil. Her grandmother, like more traditional women in Iran, wore a veil but resented the government ordering her to do so. Covering up, Nafisi said, was a matter of faith, not politics.

Nafisi believes that women have become a symbolic statement of the power of the Islamic state. She called Iranian women canaries of the mind — barometers of how free society is.

It’s impossible to predict what will transpire in Iran in the coming days.

Nafisi believes a regime change will not be enough; that only a change in mindset can lead to greater freedoms for women.

Moaveni said the sheer scale of the demonstrations assures her that the political and social climate will never again be the same in Iran.

Tohidi is keeping her fingers crossed that the protests won’t prompt Iran’s hardliners to clamp down and rule by repression.

But all of them shared the hopes of the women — like Parisa — who are marching on the streets.

“Today, we were wearing black,” Parisa said, referring to the day of mourning to remember those who have died in post-election violence.

“We were holding signs. We said, ‘We are not sheep. We are human beings,’” she said.
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Parisa was thankful for all the images being transmitted out of Iran despite the government’s crackdown on international journalists. She was thankful, too, that the world cared.

“Today,” she said, “I had this feeling of hope that things will finally change.”

Salon: Clinton, Biden want Obama to take stronger stance on Iran

Obama’s also hearing from senior officials within his administration, including Vice President Biden and Secretary of State Hillary Clinton, that he should rethink his current stance.

According to the Times, its sources within the administration say that Clinton and Biden, among others, “while supporting the president’s approach… would like to strike a stronger tone in support of the protesters.” There’s also some concern, the paper reports, that the president “run[s] the risk of coming across on the wrong side of history at a potentially transformative moment in Iran.”

Bonnie Erbe, US News: A Peaceful Conclusion to Iran Election Results Does Not Seem Possible

I would like to chime in on my colleague Peter Roff’s Tuesday blog, predicting the mullahs may yet be ousted in Iran. He wrote:

“The millions of Iranians who are the streets this week may bring down the regime. Toppling the mullahs would have a profound impact on U.S. security, potentially removing from the scene one of this country’s major enemies and what is perhaps the world’s principal terrorist-supporting state.”

Here, here! I am listening to a public radio report as I write this, about the importance of the Internet and social networking in organizing the Iranian protests. The government is aware of this and cracking down on internet usage as a result. This is fomenting more calls for outright rebellion.

President Obama made, as Peter Roff noted, wishy-washy remarks, but his former opponent, Sen. John McCain, came out stronger, calling on the President to call the Iranian election what it was: a sham.

Meanwhile, the protesters continue their anti-government work:

“Tens of thousands of supporters of Mir Hossein Mousavi , the defeated main challenger in the disputed Iranian presidential election, rallied in central Tehran, video on Iranian state television showed, after the biggest protest in 30 years led to as many as 15 deaths.”

Let’s all hope this is resolved peacefully and no more blood is shed. But that does not seem possible from here.

The candidates are the same.” A sham election. Where have we heard this before?

The protest is not just students and the highly educated. It’s spreading to everyone:

MSNBC: Women in chadors join Iran’s opposition: Protesters say they want their votes counted and their voices heard

It’s not just young, liberal rich kids anymore: Whole families, taxi drivers, even conservative women in black chadors are joining Iran’s opposition street protests.

They say they want something simple: their votes counted and their voices heard. What they will settle for — or push for — is a far bigger question.

Boorghani is typical of the young reformists who initially backed Mousavi — but that support is growing to include grandmothers, government employees and hotel clerks.

The last time Iran was engulfed in similar anti-government action was a decade ago when a deadly raid on a Tehran University dorm sparked six days of nationwide protests. At the time, they were considered the worst since the 1979 revolution that toppled the pro-U.S. shah and brought hard-line clerics to power. But the student-driven movement eventually fizzled, leaving many people more bitter but the system intact.

This time, though, the protesters are not just affluent students and youth. The middle class is also flooding the streets and even conservative religious Iranians are joining the Mousavi supporters.

Swathed in a long black chador, 21-year-old Saman Qahremani said she wanted to let the government know that many Iranians from all walks of life are angry.

“When I learned about the result I just felt hatred. They cheated us,” said Qajremani, who held a sign at Monday’s rally that read in English, “We just want our vote.”

“If they do not count the votes of people, Iran will not be a republic any more, it will be a monarchy,” she said.

Her friend, also dressed in a chador, nodded in agreement.

Municipal worker Reza Hosseini, 37, cheered for Mousavi as he passed through the rally in a convoy of cars.

“I voted for Mousavi in hope of a better life, more freedom, security and relief,” said Hosseini, who wore a button-down shirt with stripes in Mousavi’s signature color, green. “All the people I knew voted for Mousavi.”

Nearby, a taxi driver shouted out his window: “Everybody should join! Don’t just watch, join!”

“This (the Mousavi opposition) is completely different to 1999. That was between the students and the government. This is between the people and the government. This time it is all of Iran. This is a historic movement,” Boorghani said.

Iranian Nobel Peace Prize-Winner Ebadi Calls For New Elections

Iranian Nobel Peace Prize winner Shirin Ebadi has told RFE/RL that the Iranian authorities should hold a new election and allow monitoring by international observers. She also called for the release of everyone the regime has arrested, which includes several human rights activists.

Shirin Ebadi: The Iranian people are expressing doubt and questioning the election [results]. Millions of people have come to the streets and expressed their demands in a very peaceful manner. Unfortunately, their peaceful demands have been met with violent reactions; we saw at least [seven people] killed in the streets and a number of dead at Tehran University [during an attack by security forces]. There are also many injured.

[The violent response by the authorities] has been so intense that it has caused anger and has been questioned among the members of the parliament. Some of the professors have protested against it and I hope the situation will move in a direction that the people’s demands will be taken into account.

First of all I have to say that of those who have been arrested [in recent days] must be released without any conditions. Why have the [authorities] arrested people? Just because they have been expressing their protests in a civic and peaceful manner — including [protesting] the arrest of human rights advocate Abdol Fatah Soltani, former vice president [Mohammad Ali Abtahi], and [senior reformist figure] Said Hajarian — who is in poor physical condition — and all the others who have been arrested. Citing the names of all of them would take too long.

Why there should be such a reaction? So all those arrested must be released and then the demand of the people and of the [defeated] presidential candidate should be met in way that the public is satisfied.

I believe that a recount of the votes under the current conditions won’t solve anything. A new election must be held and this time it should be under the monitoring of international organizations so that all participants would be contented that the votes that come out of the ballot boxes are the real votes of the people

Iranian Protest Photos

Categories: feminism · politics · violence against women

When PC is dishonest

June 24, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Clarissa’s Box:

Castrating Our Language

Political correctness is a great thing. But only when its goal is to create a space where everybody feels respected and comfortable. Often, however, I observe that it becomes an end in itself that creates more discomfort than anything else. It turns into yet another self-congratulatory tool that allows people to police themselves and others with a passion that would be better engaged in some actual political causes.

Slavoj Žižek’s Violence, Part II

“What lurks at the horizon. . . is the nightmarish prospect of a society regulated by a perverse pact between religious fundamentalists and the politically correct preachers of tolerance and respect for the other’s beliefs: a society immobilised by the concern for not hurting the other, no matter how cruel and superstitious this other is.”

The only truth behind this “tolerance” is contempt, lack of respect, and the desire to infantilize the menacing Other. But when somebody we can easily identify as the Other does things that offend our sensibilities, we are supposed to avert our gaze in an utterly hypocritical show of our worldiness and sophistication.

I think that as long as we organize the discussion around “tolerance/intolerance”, there will never be a solution to these issues. I’m not proposing that it “should be ok to be intolerant”. Tolerating, in any case, does not mean accepting or understanding. It just means putting up with something reluctantly.

Instead of being or not intolerant, I am in favor of not being afraid of voicing my opinions. All kinds of fundamentalists are never afraid of voicing their opinions about me. I am, however, expected to shut up about everything that I find repugnant about them. And all this just in order to comply to some standard of tolerance and political correctness.

Quashing Dissent

It is, however, deeply saddening to see how many people there are that dedicate a significant amount of time and effort to quashing any kind of dissent. I follow a number of progressive blogs that keep me informed on important issues so much better than TV news and print media (DailyKos, BitchPhD, and Femenisting are my favorite at this point).

However, engaging in a discussion on these sites is often difficult. There is always a group of well-meaning fanatics, who strive to promote what they see as the “party line.” Anything they perceive as dissent is swiftly castigated. As I have recently discovered, they would even follow you to your own blog to scream insults at you. They wouldn’t even attempt to read what you are actually saying before they start accusing you of every abomination under the sun. The saddest part is that they hide their censorship itch underneath the mantle of tolerance, acceptance, and political correctness.

Burqa

According to an article in the Associated Press, the French government is considering banning the burqas in public. A parliamentary commission will be set to investigate whether such a measure would make sense.
I know that it’s considered very illiberal to support anything like this, but I can’t help but feel that I understand what this is about. I wouldn’t dream of going to Mianwali, for example, and run around in a mini-skirt and a deep cleavage. I would respect the sensibilities of the population that practices exclusive burqa-observance and so I would most definitely wear one myself.
In Montreal, I saw men who were leading women around on leashes. This offends my sensibilities. Why should my feelings not be respected? How is what a woman in Mianwali feels more respectable than what a woman from Montreal feels?

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Heard on the internet

April 21, 2009 · 15 Comments

Jesse Jackson, Jr., Obama’s campaign manager, comparing the Obama/Clinton race to OJ Simpson and Nicole Brown Simpson.

Obama talking about Clinton “periodically” feeling down and putting her “claws” out.

Rev. Jeremiah Wright, in Obama’s church, denigrating Clinton specifically as a white woman.

Rev. Michael Pfleger, in Rev. Wright’s and Obama’s church, denigrating Clinton specifically as a white woman.

DKos and other “progressive” blogs like Democratic Underground denigrating Clinton supporters as the “dry pussy” brigade, among other sexist and ageist epithets.

Obama’s campaign dismissing Clinton’s experience as “having tea”.

Michelle Obama publicly blaming Hillary Clinton for Bill Clinton’s infidelity and saying it made her unfit to be President and recieving applause from her audience of African American women.

Obama’s campaign consistently painting Clinton with anti-feminist tropes, like she’s too ambitious.

Obama’s campaign falsely characterizing Clinton’s remarks about LBJ and MLK as racist when they were no such thing.

The memo from the Obama campaign urging its spokespersons to push certain comments — like the LBJ and MLK comment and the “fairytale” — as racist when they were not.

Donna Brazile (the incompetent ass who utterly mis-managed Gore’s campaign) presenting herself as a “neutral” commentator on the race when she was anything but and using her media pulpit to lie about Hillary Clinton and Bill Clinton, including the lie that Bill Clinton called Obama’s campaign a “fairytale” and then ginning that up into a racial controversy.

The repeated accuations that Clinton voters were simply racists who would never vote for a Black man.

Harris-Lacewell accusing Clinton of having some “mammy” complex.

The very way Obama “won” the nomination by gaming the caucuses and with the DNC’s thumb on the scale through the whole process, culminating in the farce of the RBC meeting on May 31 where they ACTUALLY TOOK VOTES FROM CLINTON AND GAVE THEM TO OBAMA. People who had voted for Clinton had their votes taken away and given to Obama, for the sole purpose of gaming the delegate count for Obama.

Obama’s main speechwriter groping a cardboard cutout of Hillary Clinton.

All of this, and much more, with NO outcry from the “anti-racist” or “progressive” or “civil rights” movements. And, when anybody dared to bring any of it up, especially when white women brought it up, they were drowned out by accusations that they were racists who just didn’t want to vote for a Black man.

As for Steinem, there are different ways to reasonably read that piece — one of them being that she did not privilege sex over race. Moreover, after Obama was nominated, Steinem came out full-bore for him.

It was in that moment, that I realized Steinem sold out to the Democratic party. That’s when I knew for sure that Steinem style feminism was more about being an insider, than being on the margins.

This is not an over-diss of Steinem per se, just an observation of what happens when feminists gain “power” or anyone gains “power.”

I still say that Steinem supported Chisolm and Mosley-Braun– people accused Steinem of NOT supporting Mosley-Braun.

Since feminism doesn’t get its due in herstorical coverage, people don’t know the herstory, and haven’t done the reading. How many TV shows go into detail about the feminist movement? It’s why people didn’t know that Steinem DID support Chisolm and Mosley-Braun.

And what all these broad brush lies about the “bad white feminists” do is put the onus on white women to ignore the misogyny fomented against us in order to show our loyalty or sisterhood to Black women when they choose to ignore the misogyny used by a Black man against a white woman, and very often in race specific ways.

It’s also offensive to see Hillary Clinton being specifically denigrated as a white woman by Obama supporters such as Pflegler, Wright, and Lacewell-Harris as well as the incredible internet vitriol heaped on Clinton’s assumedly white supporters as racist. And so, yeah, that’s exactly about attacking white people because they’re white. After all, all white people are racist and the only reason they could be voting for Clinton is because their racists. Let’s not fucking pretend here: it was all over the news media and the internet for months. Fucking months.

And Scarlett O’Hara? Really? And who was the only candidate who went to Tavis Smiley’s State of the Black Union conference? Hillary Clinton, that’s who. But, again, attacking Hillary Clinton as a white woman with the stereotype of the racist white woman oblivious to her own privilege gets a lot of ground regardless of the actual facts. Scarlett O’Hara is just as much of a race stererotype as Mammy.

It’s YOUR attitude that white women “own” feminism, not mine. I DON’T own feminism so it’s not up to me to make feminism all comfy for you or make a place for you in feminism. It’s up to you. If you don’t want to do that, if you want to be all about womanism because you don’t want to be around white women and YOU think feminism is all about white women, then fine. But own it.

It’s not up to any white woman to give you an ownership stake in feminism exactly because white women don’t own feminism. If you don’t want an ownership interest in it, fine. Take your ball and go home. But that’s not up to me. It’s up to you.

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What’s wrong with the Third Wave Part 13

March 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Double X as a whole seems to reflect an increasing trend in online women’s and feminist media – and frankly, it is making me tired. Tired of the manufactured feminist “cat-fighting,” tired of the hating, tired of the notion that the only way to write about feminism is to smugly (and incorrectly) point out where it is failing. I am all for an accountable feminism and constructive criticism; I think it’s necessary in order to make our work as writers and activists better. But the never-ending bullshit masquerading as good faith critique is simply exhausting. And we can do better. –Jessica Valenti, May 13, 2009

This quote agrees with half of my 12-part series on how feminism is misogynist. The other half of the series is that feminism only holds white men accountable for sexism.

My take on intersectionality hasn’t changed since 2006 or 1992 when I became a feminist. I just object to the recent misogyny and apologism in feminism. (How many times did I say, “I’m FOR intersectionality but against misogyny and apologism in feminism?” Obots and Third Wavers have reading comprehension problems not to mention simple comprehension problems.) In fact, I expanded my take on intersectionality to include womanism, black women’s role in Christianity and black men. My fear was that everyone/I would have to talk about Christianity and that we would also have to talk about white men, Asian men, Latino men and Muslim men.

The New Agenda is one blog and group that should remain dedicated to opposing patriarchy of men, women and of all races. It’s very important because it covers stuff no one else is covering. It’s taken seriously because it succeeds where the Third Wave failed. Another thing that’s wrong with the Third Wave that I’ve written about is it does not tolerate dissent. The Third Wave silences voices of dissent. For example, it goes insane if there’s one blog that opposes sexism in Islam, one blog that opposes patriarchy or one blog that opposes sexism in communities of color.

Categories: feminism · intersectionality

So refreshing and true

March 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I’m sure class is much much more important in terms of cultural differences than country of origin, although there are deeper cultural mindsets that persist whatever class one belongs to. For instance, a Pakistani male is likely to be a sexist – if he’s educated and relatively civilized, he might not grope you on the street, but he will still have disturbing attitudes about women.

Of course I do realize that most liberals will find my attitude toward immigration of brown men to western nations shockingly racist and/or bigoted. They can call me a genderist and a culturist if they wish, because it isn’t so much that these people are brown, but that they are male and belong to cultures that consider women to be sub-human and they don’t check their attitudes at the door when they move here. Europe’s experience with more open immigration laws has not been positive and this is fact. It is also unfortunately a fact that cultures aren’t equal and Muslim cultures mostly suck for women. I don’t want what I lost everything to leave following me to my new home, which yes, is culturally superior to my country of origin.

For women, these are gender and class issues, not race issues.

My life was made difficult by desi immigrants in every place I visited. The street harassment and hostility were constant. In the US, the desi immigrants, by and large, tend to be professionals, middle class, educated, and well-integrated. In Europe, there are far more desi immigrants from the lower classes, who do manual labor and own small businesses and so forth. They are not integrated in the sense of adopting the local cultural attitudes towards women, although they generally leave white women alone unless they feel they can get away with it. With a woman they could spot as “one of their own” (me), it was different. It felt like being back in Pakistan, frankly – not a pleasant experience. In all my time since leaving that blighted land, I have not been groped in public, and in Amsterdam, I had my breast accidentally-on-purpose touched by a fatherly Sikh shopkeeper in a turban. I could not walk down the street without being accosted frequently and rudely. And I was not allowed to maintain my identity as an American unquestioned – they wanted to know exactly what my origin was, so they could file me neatly away as, after all, a desi, not a true westerner they need be respectful of.

Again, for women, these are gender and class issues, not race issues.

Sorry to hear about the sexual harassment. I know what you mean by being treated badly by “your own people.” I moved from a brown third-world country to a white first-world country and I stay the hell away from my fellow countrymen (yes, I do mean men specifically). They love to complain about the racism they receive in this country while at the same time belittling my complaints about their sexists attitudes. The best example I have was when one of them said he’d love to fuck white women to prove his superiority over them. When I called him out and suggested he read some feminist writing, he told me he didn’t need it because he had his religion to guide him through life (I’ll give you three guesses what it was).

I do know what you mean about liberals criticizing your attitude towards brown men, I’ve seen a certain blog post calling you out specifically for it. I’m convinced that these women who insist that brown men’s issues are feminist issues simply have no idea how some of these brown men think of brown women, and I’m not convinced that helping these brown men will magically result in brown women attaining better standards of living. Which is not to say that racism isn’t a problem. It is. But you don’t help women by putting men’s issues first.

This commenter must be following American politics and feminism.

The Swedes and Finns and Norwegians I met were almost prudish, and definitely very low-key as far as sex was concerned. Sexual equality rates very well in Scandinavia and I especially like the women – the patriarchal conditioning that wars against what I call sisterhood is not there.

American men are more manly than any European men. Effortlessly so. And American women are less bitchy and more sisterly than any European women except the Germans. In fact, we have a lot in common with the Germans, including looks. I did feel suddenly invisible when I got back home though, because the way American men check women out is far more subtle and unobtrusive than the blatant, caressing way in which I’ve been ogled in Europe for two months. I got so used to feeling above all like a sexy nymph that I almost forgot I was a person. That came back in a rush when I returned. I had to pay close attention to reassure myself that American men were still checking me out, just not like European men did. And sex is much less in the air here than in Catholic Europe. I can feel the puritan / Protestant influence – male-female relations are scrubbed clean for public consumption. Still, Americans are not sexually uptight and repressed like the Brits. I can’t imagine being in any kind of serious relationship with a non-American man. And I don’t trust European women like I trust American women.

Yay for American women and feminism! This reminds me of Violet’s post:

Violence against women occurs in virtually every society, but the rate and severity of the abuse vary enormously across cultures. Anthropologists and social scientists have been studying this stuff for decades. The percentage of battered women ranges from, say, 18% in Norway (to take one example from a 1999 global survey) to 80% in Pakistan (or even higher, depending on the study.) Violence against women is not a universal absolute that floats independent of culture: it is very much tied up with social norms and expectations, with religious beliefs, and with levels of male dominance. Many scholars have documented a particularly strong correlation between an ideology of male supremacy and actual rates of domestic violence (one example on my bookshelf: Peggy Reeves Sanday’s Female Power and Male Dominance, 1981.)

But the Kim Gandy approach, apparently, is to ignore this. We’re supposed to talk about “the repression of women” without ever getting too specific about where it’s happening or why or how. We’re not supposed to inquire into social codes or religious beliefs; we’re not supposed to notice that many Christian communities turn a blind eye to domestic violence, or that many Muslims believe husbands have a religiously-sanctioned right to beat their wives. Better to just issue vague platitudes and gloss over any possibility that there may be more or less misogyny in any given cultural tradition. That way you won’t offend anybody.

Why does this tick me off so much? Well, first of all, because it’s dishonest. Few things exasperate me more than propaganda, and I have no patience at all with polite fictions that conceal the ugliness of so many patriarchal religions and customs. But hiding the truth is also actively harmful. If you want to fix something, you have to understand what it is and how it works.

The solution, in all cases, is to confront the situation with unflinching honesty. Drag the truth into the light, name it, shame it, challenge it, harp on it, and demand that the mullahs or the imams or the preachers or the priests haul their sorry selves into the 21st century and change.

And of course my post, Internalized sexism at least a hundred times more prevalent in women of color than internalized racism.

Categories: class · feminism · gender · intersectionality

What would happen

March 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Carissa:

if labels were cast aside, and woman of every political stripe gathered together to talk and really support each other?

It might look a lot like this post by Afrocity and the comments that follow.

Rock on sisters. Welcome to the “un-party.”

Similarly, the Violence Against Women Forum was a huge success:

On April 18th, The New Agenda loudly proclaimed “We have your back, girlfriend!” with a Violence Against Women Forum. Thank you to the many members who took time from their busy days to attend the event.

We would also like to acknowledge and thank our accomplished panelists: Karen Cheeks-Lomax, Rosemonde Pierre-Louis, Leslie Crocker Snyder and Irene Weiser. We will be posting video highlights on our blog shortly.

The event was a huge success. Not only was it an incredible learning experience for us all, but we were also able to come up with the outline of a way forward. Reducing violence against women will remain a primary focus for The New Agenda in 2009.

One panelist noted that The New Agenda is the best hope for accomplishing something substantial in dealing with this national crisis. Since The New Agenda does not rely on government monies nor special interest funding, we can uniquely speak out bravely and boldly for the women and girls of this country on this important issue. And we will. Stay tuned!

FACT: 90% of rape occurs between people of the same race and economic class.

Categories: feminism

Comment of the year

March 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Pleasegos:

I’m sorry, but as a WOC that statement makes me want to beat my head against the wall and lay down in the street. That’s why I became a feminist in the first place. That’s why there IS feminism in the first place. I don’t feel like I’m any less likely to be killed or arrested (or harassed, sexually and otherwise) by cops than my male cousins. I’m way the hell more likely to be beaten or raped than my male cousins. The only difference, to me, is that if it happens to me, nobody will talk about i, nobody will march about it, nobody will care. At best, I’ll get a little blurb nobody will read on What About Our Daughters? while the mainstream, big feminist blogs will pick out a well known, already wildely decried story about a MOC and say that that’s a feminst issue because that man had a mother who loved him. To me, that statement is the problem, not something that needs to be enshrined in feminism. I’m TIREDof not mattering.

In the Asian community, only Asian men matter. The Asian community betrays Asian women.

I have just gotten FED UP over the course of this campaign. If this is womanism, it doesn’t sound too great to me. And it shouldn’t be what feminism is all abut, it sounds like why I wnated to be one in teh first place. I f certain WOC have other priorities and want to put women way down on the priority list of social justice issues, that’s fine. But asking feminists to do that is not fine. I understand that when feminists say “women,” they’re too often thinking of just white women. But asking them to play the role of alyways putting their sons first is not the answer.

This sums up the 2008 election.

Categories: feminism · intersectionality

Violence Against Women Forum – NYC, April 18th

March 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

navaw

The New Agenda will be hosting a Violence Against Women Forum on April 18th from 3-5 p.m. at the Benjamin Hotel in New York City. A cocktail hour will follow from 5-6 p.m. RSVP to tnavawforum@yahoo.com

The Violence Against Women Forum will feature four of the New York area’s preeminent experts on domestic violence. Each expert will speak about a specific topic that she feels is currently noteworthy.

Help spread the word. Here’s the invitation and brochure with one page for each of the four panelists.

Categories: feminism · violence against women

What’s wrong with anti-racism Part 12

March 23, 2009 · Leave a Comment

If you’re an Asian-American woman who identifies as a feminist online, you’re going to end up being called a sell-out whore at some point.

I used to try to argue with this, but I got tired of being accused of having hysterical and having “hissy fits” and so on. It’s tragic and maddening.

All of this does, however, make me REALLY appreciate the Asian-American men online who DON’T act like this. Kai at Zuky, the guys at Poplicks.com, C.N. Le, Angry Asian Man, Jeff Yang… these are just some men I read that prove you don’t have to bash or silence Asian-American women in order to advance the progress of Asian-American men.

Why haven’t you or your co-bloggers at either blog written about this? I’d narrow it down to Kai, Oliver and Phil who have not shown an animus towards women. Is it any wonder they’re the only three I interacted with in the last three years (two via email)? There’s some serious racism here: Asian men reinforce their own racist stereotype and the Asian community doesn’t say anything about it.

Anti-racists would tell them to stop reinforcing their own racist stereotype.

See Aishah Simmons quote here and what What About Our Daughters said this week:

You can’t call yourself a “civil rights” organization and promote the denial of basic human rights to half the population.

Who’s racist? Asian men and the Asian community.

Who’s anti-racist? Asian feminists.

Categories: feminism · intersectionality

The New Agenda on PBS’ To The Contrary

March 23, 2009 · 4 Comments

Amy Siskind was a guest on PBS’ To The Contrary with Bonnie Erbe and they discussed the recession taking away flex-time, sexting and the first pregnant, unmarried member of Congress. Amy was the standout.

The New Agenda opposes patriarchy of men, women and all races.

This is what happens to women who sell out other women.

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I’ll take it

February 20, 2009 · Leave a Comment

A critique of feminism said I’m unpopular but authoritative:

This is highly influential on the construction of “feminism” in the blogosphere-a corporate-style branding of Feminism and Feminist Blogs. Many times popularity is conflated with authority. This is contrasted with feminist blogs that receive substantially less traffic and claim schools of thought that say many feminisms exist across a wide spectrum of consciousness.

Here they link a post of mine about how feminism moved away from sexual inequality. They further clarify the point:

Inherent in the authority granted to feminist mega-blogs is the incorrect casting of the writing on less popular blogs as not as good; it positions the style, critique, and opinions (especially when in conflict with larger blogs) of writers on small blogs as less valid.

Octogalore, a small blogger herself, shares an opinion similar to the critique:

Van Deven and Shoot are perceptive in claiming that the authority granted to feminist mega blogs “positions the style, critique, and opinions (especially when in conflict with larger blogs) of writers on small blogs as less valid.” That is most definitely the case. Most of the blogs I read and find most authoritative, in fact, are smaller ones. Same with the fact that I tend to prefer more obscure designers and restaurants. But I cannot blame the larger ones for being larger.

Categories: blogging · feminism

Lilly Ledbetter

February 16, 2009 · Leave a Comment

on NQR right now.

Next week’s guest will be Marcia Pappas, President of NY-NOW

Categories: feminism · sexism

le short vert

February 16, 2009 · Leave a Comment

from the Hear Us Roar WOC blog carnival:

And though Black Americans have faced, are facing, and will face [even with President Obama] issues that have, for centuries, torn at our cultural fabric, issues not many have cared to understand, additional tearing should be expected – it’s time for Black America to deal with the male privilege and homophobia within our own borders. it is beyond preposterous to declare that racism [and its children, self-loathing, self-sabotage and double consciousness] have stained the entirety of our cultural tapestry [from how we look to our cultural food to how our last names aren’t even our own] while expecting to emerge unscathed from sexism and other gender-based institutions. these issues aren’t addressed and to assert that we are a people beyond the reach of other jaded ideologies is to create the very scales upon our own eyes that we loathe in others.

Aishah Simmons from my link eight posts down:

So it was just this way of kind of saying, who is the fucking traitor here? ‘Cause you know, to quote my dad (Michael Simmons), the traitor is to have a rapist in our community and not warn anyone. Why aren’t Black men who rape Black women traitors to the race? You know, why is it that Black women who come forward are traitors to the race? I had people say, “How you gonna lynch another brother with that documentary? How you gonna talk about these issues when Black men are doing so bad?” And my response is, “Does that give them the right to rape me or any Black woman because they’re doing bad? Why not bring an end to white and male supremacy?”

Me, December 6, 2007:

There’s no conflict between fighting racism and fighting sexism in communities of color. In fact, they reinforce each other.

Categories: feminism · intersectionality

Aishah Simmons

February 2, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Elle via Shakesville linked this incredible Aishah Simmons interview:

The Myth of Black Women’s Progress

which can be applied to all WOC in the US.

Categories: feminism · intersectionality

The View From Under The Bus

February 2, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I’m sure The View From Under The Bus with Angienc, Afrocity, Madamab, Regencyg & StateofDisbelief was great so check it out along with the preceding show Lion’s Share with Sheri, Darragh and Kim.

There’s something about PUMA and great radio voices. Did you hear Brad and Lori’s voices last week? Or NewHamster a couple weeks ago?

Categories: feminism · politics

Support Betty Jean Kling

February 2, 2009 · 2 Comments

Listen to Betty Jean’s show Free Us Now for updates on her daughters Louisa and Denise.

Her incredible story here and here.

Help fund Louisa’s Law.

PUMA is pushing for domestic violence, rape and sexual assault against women to be called hate crimes.

Categories: feminism · sexism

New Black Man

February 1, 2009 · Leave a Comment

I’m posting this because it applies to all POC not just blacks:

A Black Male Feminist’s Guide to Anti-Misogynist Black Politics (AKA: Why We Can’t Support Chris Brown) by Frank Leon Roberts

Misogynist Myth 1:
“Chris Brown is a good kid. Something must have really pushed him over the edge. He does not deserve to be dragged through the mud like this. Black men are always being represented as extra-sexist, which isn’t fair. Overall Chris Brown is great role model for black men. ”

Whenever we dare to critique black male sexism or misogyny, we are immediately told that such critiques are “wrong” because they run the risk of representing black men in a “negative” light. The time has come to move beyond these sort of Clarence Thomas politics. When black men—regardless of their class, sexual orientation, or profession—-abuse a woman, it is intolerable, unacceptable, and must be aggressively denounced. Period.

We know this story all too well. When Clarence did it, it was “Anita’s fault.” When O.J. did it, it was “white people’s fault.” When R. Kelly “did it” it was those “jealous hoes’ fault.”

When will be allowed to denounce black male misogyny without fear of losing our Blackness membership card?

Misogynist Myth 2:
Rihanna must have “Provoked” It. She “asked” for it.

Sometimes I wonder how black people would respond if white people suddenly started offering “justifications” for our antebellum, slave ass-whippings. I can just imagine it now, “Well Kunte actually deserved that bloody lash because I told his sneaky ass to stop stepping out of line in the cotton field!”

I’m being dangerously facetious here, but my point should be well taken. There is no such thing as a “justification” for an act of sexist violence. In the moment that a man’s hands come down upon a woman’s body, they are immediately rooted (even if inadvertently) to a longer history of sexism and misogyny; to a history which has systematically preconditioned us to believe that physical violence is both a sane and natural way to put a woman “in her place.”

If we are to move beyond the cults of sexism and misogyny that run rampant in many black romantic relationships, then we must free ourselves from the egregiously problematic notion that casual male violence against women is ever “justified.” Particularly when it involves a 6’2, 180 pound man against a 5’8, 120 pound (a size “2”) woman.

Misogynist Myth #3:
Well, both of them were in the wrong. Why are we focusing exclusively on Chris Brown’s wrong-doing? Clearly this man needs help. Should’nt we be trying to support Chris Brown and make sure that he gets the help that he needs?

Any politics of social justice that does not begin with a concern, first and foremost for those MOST disadvantaged (i.e. the BATTERED rather than the BATTERER; the ABUSED rather than the ABUSER; the VICTIM of Violence rather than simply the Perpetrator of it) is misguided, and surely doomed for failure. I continue to believe in the utility of a “bottom’s up” approach to social justice.

Therefore, we should refuse to let our “concern” for Chris Brown’s “needs” silence our outrage, disgust, and/or disapproval of his misogyny.

Can I get a womanist, feminist Amen? A Witness?

Categories: feminism · intersectionality

Kim Gandy defends patriarchy

February 1, 2009 · Leave a Comment

Violet Socks:

Violence against women occurs in virtually every society, but the rate and severity of the abuse vary enormously across cultures. Anthropologists and social scientists have been studying this stuff for decades. The percentage of battered women ranges from, say, 18% in Norway (to take one example from a 1999 global survey) to 80% in Pakistan (or even higher, depending on the study.) Violence against women is not a universal absolute that floats independent of culture: it is very much tied up with social norms and expectations, with religious beliefs, and with levels of male dominance. Many scholars have documented a particularly strong correlation between an ideology of male supremacy and actual rates of domestic violence (one example on my bookshelf: Peggy Reeves Sanday’s Female Power and Male Dominance, 1981.)

But the Kim Gandy approach, apparently, is to ignore this. We’re supposed to talk about “the repression of women” without ever getting too specific about where it’s happening or why or how. We’re not supposed to inquire into social codes or religious beliefs; we’re not supposed to notice that many Christian communities turn a blind eye to domestic violence, or that many Muslims believe husbands have a religiously-sanctioned right to beat their wives. Better to just issue vague platitudes and gloss over any possibility that there may be more or less misogyny in any given cultural tradition. That way you won’t offend anybody.

Why does this tick me off so much? Well, first of all, because it’s dishonest. Few things exasperate me more than propaganda, and I have no patience at all with polite fictions that conceal the ugliness of so many patriarchal religions and customs. But hiding the truth is also actively harmful. If you want to fix something, you have to understand what it is and how it works.

The solution with either religion is not to nervously change the subject, or launch into a litany of all-the-other-religions-that-are-also-sexist-so-it’s-unfair-to-mention-religion-at-all, or confuse the issue by pretending that criticism of a cultural tradition is synonymous with prejudicial hatred of the people who belong to that tradition (and notice how Kim accuses critics of attacking the Muslim community, which is exactly what Christian fundamentalists do when they accuse their critics of having some unreasoning prejudice against Christians). The solution, in all cases, is to confront the situation with unflinching honesty. Drag the truth into the light, name it, shame it, challenge it, harp on it, and demand that the mullahs or the imams or the preachers or the priests haul their sorry selves into the 21st century and change.

As for the Hassan tragedy, which breaks my heart every time I think about it, the only tiny shred of good news is that many American Muslims are much smarter (or more honest) about the situation than Kim Gandy. They recognize quite well that there are specific social and religious codes that help to perpetuate a culture of violence, and the case has moved many of them to speak out:

This is a horrible tragedy, but it gives us a window,” said Abdul-Ghafur, editor of the anthology “Living Islam Out Loud: American Muslim Women Speak.” “The next time a woman comes to her imam and says, ‘He hit me,’ the reply might not be, ‘Be patient, sister, is there something you did, sister? Is there something you can do?’ The chances are greater the imam will say, ‘This is unacceptable.’

And a Muslim woman writes in the Globe and Mail:

Muslim denial over the abysmal status of women is deeper even than the one over the use of Islam to justify radical violence. Centuries of male-dominated and misogynistic interpretations of Islam are strangling us. We’re told on the one hand that God says men can beat us and yet, when we complain and demand our God-given right to a divorce, we’re told that’s a man’s prerogative.

That is precisely the kind of understanding that is sacrificed when you sign up for Kim Gandy-style “no need to bring religion into it” anesthetic.

The second quote reminds me of my post:

November 17, 2007: Internalized sexism of women of color at least a hundred times more prevalent than internalized racism

Categories: feminism · intersectionality · sexism